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Bad Sex Advice for $250 an Hour

Posted on | March 16, 2019 | 1 Comment

 

Becoming a licensed marriage and family therapist in California is so easy that even people who are against marriage can do it, as is the case of “sex-positive” therapist Moushumi Ghose. She has a “private practice specializing in sexuality, alternative relationships and lifestyles including kink, polyamory, gender non-binary, lgbt and more.” Not sure what the “and more” might include, but Ms. Ghose identifies as “queer” and has written at length of her opposition to monogamy, so she is theoretically in favor of anything except normal heterosexual relationships.

Do people practicing “alternative relationships and lifestyles including kink, polyamory,” etc., have much need for licensed therapists? And if so, what goes on in such therapy sessions? Does it involve whips and chains? It is difficult to believe there is much demand for Ms. Ghose’s practice, whatever sort of “therapy” it may involve, because kinky freaks are more or less making up the rules as they go along. How can someone say their “gender non-binary” polyamorous partner has violated the rules or that their “alternative relationship” fails to meet their expectations? Exactly what rules or expectations apply in such a “relationship”?

My point is that, once you decide there are no rules — rejecting all moral standards so that everything is acceptable — it becomes impossible to say that any “relationship” is wrong or harmful, so long as its consensual. Has someone violated your consent? Call the cops, not a therapist. If nothing is ever wrong, then any unhappiness you experience with your non-binary kinky polygamous partner(s) is entirely your problem. What’s the use of seeing a marriage and family therapist in such a situation? She’s going to counsel you and your partner(s) on how to make your basement BDSM dungeon experiences more pleasurable?

As in the case of Cosmopolitan “Sex & Relationships Editor” Carina Hsieh — who is mentally unstable, sexually dysfunctional and infected with herpes — I’m inclined to doubt that Moushumi Ghose has any real expertise that qualifies her to give other people sex advice. Nevertheless, she has a YouTube channel of sex-advice videos with titles like “Drag Queen Life in Israel,” “One Female-to-Male FTM’s Journey to Transition,” and “Why You Should Embrace Your Kink Fetish.”

Moushumi Ghose with Israeli drag queen ‘Moksha.’

What next, “How to Get Laid in the Star Wars Cantina Scene”?

Forgive me for suggesting that the proper therapy for some of these people would involve a straitjacket and heavy doses of Thorazine.

WE NOW INTERRUPT FOR THIS BREAKING NEWS UPDATE:

Houston Public Library is apologizing after a man charged for sexually assaulting a child was allowed to entertain children at Drag Queen storytime.
The library said Friday that a review revealed the volunteer never completed a background check before he was allowed to participate in the program.
Albert Alfonso Garza, 32, was last seen reading to children at the Montrose Library in September 2018.
ABC13 Eyewitness News has learned Garza was charged with child sex assault in 2008. According to records, his victim was a child under the age of 14 years old.
The library said appropriate action is being taken to ensure every participant in every program is verified to ensure similar incidents cannot happen in the future.

Albert Alfonso Garza performs in a Houston gay bar as ‘Tatiana Mala-Niña.’

If there are no rules, then nothing is ever bad or wrong, except perhaps insofar as it is illegal, but as long as you don’t break the law, how are “gender non-binary” polyamorous people supposed to judge the quality of their “alternative relationships and lifestyles”? What standards apply, that would permit Moushumi Ghose to counsel them? What’s her hourly rate? Let’s see, a “single session” is $250, a five-session “Coaching Package” is $1,125, and a six-month “Mentorship Program” is $12,000.

If you’re willing to pay those rates, you’re crazy enough for Thorazine.

Anyway, Professor Reynolds linked to an article by Ms. Ghose that included this sentence: “We must allow men safe spaces to voice their sexual needs and desire so we can understand their own perspectives.”

What should you notice about that sentence? “We.”

Who is “we”? This first-person plural pronoun suggests a group of people who are not currently allowing men to have their “safe spaces.” According to Ms. Ghose, there is some collective “we” who need to “understand” men’s “sexual needs” from “their own perspectives.” Who is “we”?

6 Things We Blame On Men That Are Totally NOT Their Fault
Over the last decade or so feminism has gone mainstream in terms of sex and sexuality, including a huge surge in the production of feminist porn. Global feminism’s 4th wave is off and running, giving women all around the world a voice via the Internet to speak out about everything from rape to sexual harassment to body image (think Dove commercials and SlutWalks).
Women are everywhere these days and sexuality is just one area in which women are joining forces globally to have a voice.
Interestingly, with all of this emphasis placed on empowering women, more and more stigmas and myths around sexuality are being directed towards men. While I don’t believe this movement is taking away men’s voices, I also don’t believe we’re empowering men to understand that they have a role and a voice in the conversations around sexuality as well. . . .

You can read the rest of that article by Ms. Ghose, but the only person she’s actually interested in “empowering” to have a “voice in the conversations around sexuality” is herself (for $250 an hour). In case you didn’t already know it, men have basically been driven out of the field of psychology, where women now get nearly 80% of bachelor’s degrees. Nobody in the field of psychology gives a damn about “men’s voices,” or otherwise they’d be doing something about the rampant anti-male discrimination in academia that has caused this. Especially in terms of “sexuality,” the feminists who now dominate the field of psychology have zero interest in the “sexual needs” of men. Feminism is an anti-male hate movement, and I don’t know why Moushumi Ghose, a self-described “queer” feminist, would pretend to care about males or their “sexual needs” except to drum up business for her $250-an-hour therapy racket.

If any woman is interested in hearing about a man’s “sexual needs,” she can save herself a lot of money by skipping therapy and arranging an appointment at my favorite “safe space,” Benny’s Pub, where I’d be happy to explain everything to her for the price of a few beers. Being “a voice in the conversations around sexuality” is such hard work . . .



 

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  1. News of the Week (March 17th, 2019) | The Political Hat
    March 17th, 2019 @ 9:54 pm

    […] Bad Sex Advice for $250 an Hour Becoming a licensed marriage and family therapist in California is so easy that even people who are against marriage can do it, as is the case of “sex-positive” therapist Moushumi Ghose. She has a “private practice specializing in sexuality, alternative relationships and lifestyles including kink, polyamory, gender non-binary, lgbt and more.” Not sure what the “and more” might include, but Ms. Ghose identifies as “queer” and has written at length of her opposition to monogamy, so she is theoretically in favor of anything except normal heterosexual relationships. […]