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Totalitarian Hatemonger @RubyHamad Wonders Why Men Won’t Listen to Her

Posted on | March 11, 2016 | 53 Comments

Being constantly insulted by feminists — “Heterosexuality Is the Structure That Keeps Sexist Oppression in Place” — is something men are expected never to notice. Any man who objects to feminism’s anti-male hate propaganda will be instantly branded a misogynist. This is “Kafkatrapping,” whereby the denial of guilt is cited as proof of guilt.

No feminist ever wants to hear a word any man has to say, because men are always wrong about everything, and the only “right” a man now has is his Fifth Amendment right to remain silent.

 

Ruby Hamad publishes her anti-male screeds at the Australian feminist site Daily Life. When she is not busy denouncing science as “sexist” or demonizing heterosexual men as violent rapists who harbor “unconscious misogyny,” Ms. Hamad occasionally takes time to complain that men don’t applaud her insulting lectures about how evil men are:

Why do so few men
turn up to hear women speak?
The success of the All About Women festival last Sunday, now in its fourth year, is a testament to how women are unabashedly reclaiming public space. . . .
Sex slavery. Rape. Objectification. Slut-shaming. Misogyny. Sexual double standards. Abuse. The exposure to all these – and more – are part of what being a women entails in our world. And so, these issues necessarily form a large part of what women talk about when we come together on occasions like this.
But the seriousness of the subject matter were not all that these sessions had in common. Disappointingly, both had a dire lack of men in the audience. . . .

FULL STOP.

Not long ago, feminists were complaining that the Michigan Womyn’s Music Festival got shut down because of its women-only policy. Now they complain because men won’t attend feminist anti-male hate rallies? Does Ms. Hamad think men are too stupid to understand what feminism is?

“Heterosexual desire . . . originates in the power relationships between the sexes and normally takes the form of eroticising the subordination of women. . . .
“[H]eterosexuality is . . . a political institution through which male dominance is organised and maintained. Sex as we know it under male supremacy is the eroticised power difference of heterosexuality.”
— Sheila Jeffreys, Anticlimax: A Feminist Perspective on the Sexual Revolution (1990)

Professor Jeffreys retired in May 2015 after teaching for 24 years at the University of Melbourne, and if Ruby Hamad or any other feminist in Australia disagreed with Professor Jeffeys about the evils of “male dominance,” they never had the courage to say as much. No feminist in the 21st century dares to say anything good about heterosexuality for fear of being condemned as a homophobe. Feminists are always against anything that makes men happy — videogames, low taxes, football, the internal combustion engine, etc. — and because men enjoy having sex with beautiful women, feminists are against both sex and beauty. This is why the very first public protest of the Women’s Liberation movement in September 1968 targeted the Miss America pageant: “How dare those pretty girls wear swimsuits so that men can admire them?”

Men are expected to politely pretend we are too stupid to understand feminism as the dishonest three-card monte hustle it actually is. No matter what a man does, feminists will find a reason to condemn him for doing it. Alternatively, he will be condemned for not doing whatever it is that feminists want him to do. Next, when the helpless fool tries to do what feminists demand, they will condemn him for doing it wrong.

Oh, but men are not supposed to notice this. Play dumb and say nothing. Just nod your head and smile. You have the right to remain silent.

Don’t swindle me and call it “social justice.” When you decide to injure a man, don’t pretend you’ve injured him by accident, nor should you insult a man by telling him the injuries you inflict are for his own good.

Any man who is not fit to judge his own best interests is a fool, and when feminists pretend that they understand men better than men understand themselves, this is never an accidental insult. The transparent scam of feminism, whereby a handful of parasitical hustlers seek to grow rich by claiming the authority to speak on behalf of all women, has never fooled anyone — male or female — with a lick of common sense.

What part of “anti-male hate propaganda” do I need to explain here? Yet the problem, according to Ruby Hamad, is that men won’t pay money to listen to feminists lecture them about what horrible oppressors they are:

Because it means men are still not listening when women speak about our experiences in a world dominated by men and male violence. . . .
In a world where men still accuse us of exaggerating our experiences of oppression and harassment, it is disappointing to see men yet again assume they had nothing to learn. . . .
It is astounding to me that men think they have little gain from an event such as this. . . . Men need to listen while women speak.

Translation: “Men are ignorant. Men know nothing.”

Feminists are Our Moral Superiors™ — intelligent! courageous! heroic! — and every man should pay money for the opportunity to sit quietly and be tutored by Ruby Hamad, like a kindergartner learning his ABCs.

Feminism Is a Totalitarian Movement to Destroy Civilization as We Know It, and I apologize to regular readers for the repetition, but until some of my alleged friends start quoting me on this subject, I’ll keep quoting myself. No use waiting around for one of these clever young punks at the Weekly Standard to write a sentence that begins, “As the award-winning journalist Robert Stacy McCain says . . .”

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53 Responses to “Totalitarian Hatemonger @RubyHamad Wonders Why Men Won’t Listen to Her”

  1. CaptDMO
    March 11th, 2016 @ 5:39 pm

    It must TRULY suck if you hang a tube around your neck, and the dogs STILL won’t play with you!

  2. LastNameFirstNameLast??????
    March 11th, 2016 @ 5:50 pm

    Feminists should be seen, and not heard.

  3. Joe Joe
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:20 pm

    ““[H]eterosexuality is . . . a political institution through which male dominance is organised and maintained.”

    Does Jeffreys understand that all sexual relationships have some element of power relations? Butch/femme pairings are not accidental. And no, those women are not “imitating” heterosexuality: it’s internal. We’re born with different sexual charges. That’s biology, not politics.

  4. DeadMessenger
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:36 pm

    If I, willingly and voluntarily, enter into a covenant with a man to wash, fold and put his underwear away in exchange for him checking the oil in my car and the air in my tires, and replenishing as needed, or my putting out to him in exchange for him putting out to me, I can’t see why that is any of Ms. Hamad’s concern.

    In fact, the constant yammering and b1tching of feminists actually weakens my negotiation position. It is as if they are claiming that I, as a woman, are unable, solely because of my sex, to make my own decisions and do what I damn well please.

    In other words, I’m sick of feminists speaking for me, and wish those shrews would just shut up already.

  5. Fail Burton
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:39 pm

    I have to admit I’m mystified as to why more journalists aren’t picking up on this. 2 years ago you could argue they just didn’t know but that’s increasingly hard to argue. And while ESPN’s giving awards to confused senile crossdressers and lighting up the Lousiville basketball program via the noble intentions of woman who prostituted her own daughters, where’s the in-depth expose of what happened at Mizzou? Only a moron believes there was no collusion between Black Lives Matters figures and members of the football team to pull off an extortion scheme. It’s seems ESPN can see insane ex-Olympians just fine but not insane anti-white manifestos delivered to colleges as or-else demands.

    Hillary Clinton paling around with Charlotte Bunch is like Mitt Romney paling around with an insane MRA who preaches women have colluded to stay out of wars since the advent of easier military technologies based on the theory the more aggressive men will be bred out of the population and women inherit the Earth. How about a Man of the Year award for that and 25 years heading up a male studies program at a major university?

    Whether it’s BLM, lesbian supremacy, Islam or Third World failure, we seem intent on building statues to it all while the names and statues of men who got us America will be increasingly chiseled off walls like the names of out-of-fashion Egyptians. People like Hamad aren’t just pre-Enlightenment, they are pre-Code of Hammurabi.

  6. Zhytamyr
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:49 pm

    Today feminists are campaigning for free feminine hygiene products, tomorrow it will be for free cat kibble & litter for their enormous collections of cats.

  7. robertstacymccain
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:49 pm

    Let me say, first, that I do not like theory. Give me enough facts, and I’ll come up with my own theory — or not. Could I theorize about the nature of sexual attraction? Sure, and I even dabble a bit in it (“Me Tarzan, you Jane”) in my book. Heterosexual success requires that a man exhibit some quality of heroism, to elicit the admiration of a woman. She cannot love a man she does not admire. This is simple enough to understand, and also explains the fundamental problem of feminism — an ideology that takes a wholly negative view of masculinity, so that the feminist can never find any real enjoyment in a normal heterosexual relationship. Insofar as a man is worthy of admiration — possessing heroic qualities — the feminist must resent his success. This resentment of male success is so inherent to her ideology that the feminist must feel like a horrible hypocrite for admiring any man. She is always the protagonist of the drama, and he is a bit player whose only lines in the script are “yes.” For this reason, to hear her husband praised for any independent achievement of his own always fills the feminist with envy and rage.

    Well, that is one theory, anyway. If you don’t like it, I could whip out another half-dozen by next Tuesday, but theory doesn’t pay the bills.

  8. DeadMessenger
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:49 pm

    Funny you mention Mizzou, since evidently their enrollments are down 25% for next year. It’s almost as if people don’t want to pay for classes at a dangerous loony bin. Here we see a bit of “paybacks are hell” cosmic justice for once. Be nice to see some firings, too.

  9. robertstacymccain
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:52 pm

    Hey, by the way, hit the tip jar. If I don’t pay some bills around here soon, Mrs. Other McCain might demand I fold my own laundry.

  10. Fail Burton
    March 11th, 2016 @ 6:55 pm

    “… misogyny, like racism, is largely unconscious. Not only will very few people admit to to hating women, many of those who do so don’t even realise it.” – Ruby Hamad

    Kafkatrap one, reality zero.

    Orwell once wrote an essay on how conformist authoritarians use semantics while passing themselves off a progressive free-thinkers. Hamad is a prime candidate for the stupid. She loves to bitch about being an immigrant while bitching about where she came from for the simple reason there are men on every continent. Like Virginia Woolf, Hamad will never have a continent of her own nor know peace and stop spreading hatred while calling it progressive social justice. Hamad is her own Kafkatrap.

  11. Joe Joe
    March 11th, 2016 @ 7:00 pm

    If ruminating could pay the rent….. 😀

  12. totenhenchen
    March 11th, 2016 @ 7:05 pm

    “Shut up,” she explained…

  13. BillClintonsShorts17
    March 11th, 2016 @ 7:06 pm

    Dunno…..Could it be that we prefer to hear screeching noises from feeding random bits of machinery into a wood chipper?

  14. totenhenchen
    March 11th, 2016 @ 7:07 pm

    I can’t figure out whether this statement is half right or half wrong.

  15. Mike G.
    March 11th, 2016 @ 8:53 pm

    That’s a glass half empty half full conundrum.

  16. DeadMessenger
    March 11th, 2016 @ 9:29 pm

    I did hit the tip jar a little, even though I am unemployed and we have no income.

    As for everyone else, if I – who am unemployed and have no income – can slide our host a bit of cash, then surely the rest of you can do the same.

  17. DeadMessenger
    March 11th, 2016 @ 9:34 pm

    For that matter, how do we know that the screeching sounds we hear are feminists and not said wood chipper?

    Oh wait. Because one eventually shuts up and the other doesn’t.

  18. Unreliable Consent
    March 11th, 2016 @ 9:36 pm

    “In a world where men still accuse us of exaggerating our experiences of oppression and harassment, it is disappointing to see men yet again assume they had nothing to learn. . . .It is astounding to me that men think they have little gain from an event such as this. . . . Men need to listen while women speak.”

    Translation: “Men are ignorant. Men know nothing.”

    “Any man who is not fit to judge his own best interests is a fool, and when feminists pretend that they understand men better than men understand themselves, this is never an accidental insult.”

    ___________________________________

    WHEN A RAPE ACCUSATION IS THE “EVENT” ITS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GET MEN TO FALL IN LINE…OR ELSE!

    Unite Against Sexual Assault Yale – USAY
    March 9 at 7:43pm ·

    At around 5pm, the Yale Men’s Basketball Team released a statement apologizing for the hurt caused by their recent public gestures in support of their former captain. While recognizing the pain and frustration many experienced as a result of their actions is a step in the right direction, we hope they will also take active and consistent steps to promote the healthy, safe and respectful campus climate mentioned in their statement, and that they will commit, as all individuals and organizations should, to educating themselves openly and non-defensively.

    This time should be seen as an opportunity for productive conversation about Yale’s sexual climate in general, and we hope that all members of the Yale community will engage in this conversation thoughtfully and respectfully. USAY is available as a resource to any organization that wishes to have internal discussions related to the current conversations on campus.

  19. Mike G.
    March 11th, 2016 @ 10:29 pm

    Yes Dear always works for me. Feminists just don’t understand how good they have it and want to upset the apple cart for all the rest of the normal women in the world.

  20. Mike G.
    March 11th, 2016 @ 10:35 pm

    Well, eventually you run out of stuff to feed the wood chipper. Feminists never shut up, so there’s that.

  21. Mike G.
    March 11th, 2016 @ 10:37 pm

    In other words…if you are a man, submit and have your balls cut off.

  22. Daniel Freeman
    March 11th, 2016 @ 11:24 pm

    Half water. Half air. All full.

    And the water is IPA.

  23. concern00
    March 12th, 2016 @ 1:12 am

    Well, technically, men are listening to her through your wonderful exposé. She is more than welcome to join the discussion.

  24. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 1:55 am

    Unless…you feed feminists to….

    Oh, never mind.

  25. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 1:58 am

    … Mrs. Other McCain might demand I fold my own laundry.

    Good God, not that! Oh, the humanity! : )

  26. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 2:02 am

    That IS irritating, because those women typically are better off than I am. In fact, I’ve never heard of one who wasn’t, but will concede that perhaps there is one, somewhere.

    They’re like the nosy old biddy neighbors that watch everything you do and find fault. Seriously, dude, why can’t they just shut up?

  27. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 2:03 am

    IPA…Daniel, you are sooo funny!

  28. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 2:05 am

    McCain would gut her like a trout.

  29. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 2:08 am

    I was just thinking…I wonder who holds their balls now?

    Seriously Mike. How can they be such wussies? YOU aren’t a wussy. Why are those guys? Unless…of course…the BB team knows nothing of this wussification, which is my guess.

  30. Evan3457
    March 12th, 2016 @ 2:12 am

    Metaphorically.

  31. concern00
    March 12th, 2016 @ 2:18 am

    Surely a strong woman such as a feminist is capable of participating in a robust discussion of their ideas?

  32. Durasim
    March 12th, 2016 @ 2:26 am

    If Ms. Hamad is dissatisfied that not enough male persons are listening to her, she could always volunteer to give her dazzling lectures at male prisons.

    Not only would she have a “captive” audience, but it would also be closer to her intended audience, because there are bound to be some actual rapists there.

  33. Tanya Carreon
    March 12th, 2016 @ 6:25 am

    “my .friend’s mate Is getting 98$. HOURLY. on the internet.”….

    two days ago new Mc.Laren. F1 bought after earning 18,512$,,,this was my previous month’s paycheck ,and-a little over, 17k$ Last month ..3-5 h/r of work a days ..with extra open doors & weekly. paychecks.. it’s realy the easiest work I have ever Do.. I Joined This 7 months ago and now making over 87$, p/h.Learn. More right Hereoi!468????? http://GlobalSuperEmploymentVacanciesReportsHour/GetPaid/98$hourly…. .?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:::::oi!468…….

  34. M. Thompson
    March 12th, 2016 @ 6:49 am

    Save water, drink beer!

  35. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 8:45 am

    No, I mean I need a legitimate job.

  36. DeadMessenger
    March 12th, 2016 @ 8:45 am

    BWAHAHAHAHAhahaha…

  37. Fail Burton
    March 12th, 2016 @ 8:51 am

    Another interesting thing about this brand of feminism is how often it’s based on personal experience which is then projected onto all relationships. It never occurs to these women their personalities are so unpleasant they clash with everyone. Who would want to be stuck in close confines with thin-skinned morons who declare saying “retard” is an “ableism” similar to the invasion of Poland.

    The internet sadly allows these promoters of self-pity to find others like themselves in a way that was never possible before Twitter. Shared hysteria and feelings of persecution that would normally be straightened out by peer pressure in a neighborhood or something like boot camp or a warehouse job are allowed to find sympathetic ears. In my neighborhood growing up, this woman would’ve got in a lot of fights and never be invited to parties. No one wants to listen to this constant whining except other whiners who you’d previously have found only in a therapist’s group session for personality disorders.

  38. McGehee
    March 12th, 2016 @ 9:01 am

    Having to see that picture is violence against male eyes.

  39. marcus tullius cicero
    March 12th, 2016 @ 11:11 am

    …Psssst Feminazis! You cannot have it both ways…

  40. Wombat_socho
    March 12th, 2016 @ 5:18 pm

    I’m pretty sure this is a plank in Mad Mike Williamson’s campaign for World Dictator.

  41. Wombat_socho
    March 12th, 2016 @ 5:19 pm

    Sure they can, and you’re a misogynist for denying their “reality”!

  42. M. Thompson
    March 12th, 2016 @ 8:17 pm

    Even Amazon understands shamless blogwhoring:

  43. Mike G.
    March 12th, 2016 @ 10:15 pm

    Oh, you were serious?

  44. concern00
    March 13th, 2016 @ 1:53 am

    No, just terribly naive.

  45. Jeannine Frost
    March 13th, 2016 @ 3:02 am

    “my .friend’s mate Is getting 98$. HOURLY. on the internet.”….

    two days ago new Mc.Laren. F1 bought after earning 18,512$,,,this was my previous month’s paycheck ,and-a little over, 17k$ Last month ..3-5 h/r of work a days ..with extra open doors & weekly. paychecks.. it’s realy the easiest work I have ever Do.. I Joined This 7 months ago and now making over 87$, p/h.Learn. More right Hereoi!846????? http://GlobalSuperEmploymentVacanciesReportsData/GetPaid/98$hourly…. .?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:?:::::oi!846…..

  46. Dana
    March 13th, 2016 @ 9:23 am

    Looking at that face, I have to wonder if Ruby Hamad isn’t just as much of a woman as Bruce Jenner.

    https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7dNv4wO9wCE/VuMp9UKqkJI/AAAAAAAAUxg/1Npd03plf0gzP_y0vt84HFQHVhxtDtLoA/s400/Ruby_Hamad_Male_Violent.JPG

  47. Dana
    March 13th, 2016 @ 9:27 am

    Don’t you understand: if your personal choices do not precisely match the choices the feministae specify, then your choices are completely illegitimate, and invalid. Either they weren’t really your choices at all, but conditions imposed upon you by the White Cisheteronormative Christianist Patriachy®, or you are simply mentally ill.

    Remember: the left are pro-choice on exactly one thing.

  48. Dana
    March 13th, 2016 @ 9:33 am

    Alas! Despite being married for 36 years, 10 months and 22 days, I must do my own laundry.

    One of our absolute worst fights was due to me using disposable fountain pens, and not always remembering to remove them from my jeans pocket. My darling bride threw my jeans in the washer with some of her clothes, and the pen came apart, covering all of the clothes in the wash with blue ink stains.

    Worse, the stains were not noticeable while the laundry was wet, and thus not spotted before she put the clothes into the dryer.

    Since that unfortunate episode, a decade or more in the past, I have been responsible for washing my own f(ornicating) clothes.

  49. Dana
    March 13th, 2016 @ 9:51 am

    That ‘woman’ will never need an abortion. There isn’t enough Viagra in the world . . . .

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